Loneliness adds beauty to life. It puts a special burn on sunsets and makes night air smell better. It is the time when you get more close to yourself and know yourself. The worst thing that could happen to someone is- When one is alone and he doesn't even know oneself. It is the red flag for you, as you become dependent on others for your needs, happiness and when you are sad. You need someone desperately around to listen to you. There is nothing bad of being with people and having people around- but something thats wrong is 'dependability'. We conveniently tend to forget that we have come alone in this world and we'll be going back alone too!!! Its a fact everyone knows about it but people don't accept it.
Take a break for yourself, cook for yourself, be alone in the room for sometime, take out some time to think what you like and what you don't like. If you are in trouble, take a deep breath and think about the root cause for your trouble and you will find an answer for your trouble.
People are there around you as 'companion' or 'friends' or 'family' being with them gives you a sense of 'togetherness' just don't mix this emotion with 'dependability'.
I think i disagree on dependability. We came alone in this world but we were dependent on our mothers & came in to fill a void in our parents world. They were dependent on us unconditionally & so were we.
ReplyDeleteBeing lonely sometimes is nice to connect with yourself & your spirit but bottomline Man is a social being with interdependencies.
d tips u've stated are cool!!
ReplyDelete“Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for.” - Dag Hammarskjold
ReplyDeleteAs the Divine Quran Says : The people thinks to live with loneliness means their all good works will not be consider as a reward in judgment day,So as human being is a social animal,think about loneliness is like spoil our soul with null-ability..
ReplyDeletewithout Dependency human being can not justify their stand in the society,yes we came alone in this world but with dependency,yes we die alone but with dependency,yes in judgment day we are only the one to face the almighty question regarding our living in the world but after that if we will be rewarded,then again the dependency of pakeeza wife or husband in heaven also,(sura bakra) ...